Going shopping for baby gear? Shop smart with this cheat sheet list of infant necessities, nice-to-haves and baby products you don’t need to spend money on.
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Register at a baby gear store and you may be given a list that’s even longer than this one. Of course, they want you to buy everything they’ve got!
Try to keep in mind that all you really need for baby is diapers, a place for him to sleep, and a blanket to bundle him in.
But we know you’re not living in the Stone Age. You need and deserve the accessories that will make your job as parent a whole lot easier. We’ve listed those as “necessities.” Other things that you might appreciate (but which some parents have found to be a waste of money) are listed as “It’s nice to have.” Items that are merely decorative or not very useful are categorized as “strictly optional.” Products that are unsafe appear under “no-nos.”
Nursery furniture
The necessities:
Crib or co-sleeper
Crib mattress
It’s nice to have:
Changing table
Bassinet (though it’s only safe until 3 months or 15 pounds)
Rocking chair or glider
Humidifier or vaporizer
Dresser/chest
Hamper
Baby monitor (if you have a big house)
No-nos:
A secondhand crib (get a new one for safety)
Linens
The necessities:
2 fitted crib sheets
Crib bumper that ties on securely (this is controversial — some people worry that they’re a SIDS risk; others say they keep baby from banging into the bars)
Several thin cotton receiving blankets
2 waterproof mattress protectors
Strictly optional:
Matching quilt or a crib skirt (they’re only decorative)
No-nos:
Pillows (a SIDS risk)
Sleep positioners (yet another SIDS risk)
Mattress padding (ditto)
Babyproofing
The necessities (after 4 months):
Gates at the top and bottom of all stairs
Cabinet latches
Drawer latches
Outlet covers
Fireplace bumper
Furniture anchors
It’s nice to have:
Toilet lock
Corner guards for low tables
Formula feeding
The necessities:
8 or so bottles with newborn nipples (try several brands to find the one your baby prefers)
Bottle-cleaning brush or a dishwasher basket
Bottle-drying rack
Several weeks’ worth of baby formula to start
6 or more cotton bibs
6 or more burp cloths (cloth diapers do the job)
Insulated cooler/carrier for outings
It’s nice to have:
Dry formula dispenser
Bottle sterilizer
Strictly optional:
Bottle warmer (heating in hot water takes the same amount of time)
Bottle proper (unless you have multiples and use it sparingly when you can’t otherwise feed all the babies at once)
Breastfeeding
The necessities:
Nursing pillow
2-3 nursing bras
2-3 boxes of nursing pads
6 or more cotton bibs
6 or more burp cloths (cloth diapers do the job)
It’s nice to have:
Breast pump (electric if you’ll use it every day at work, otherwise a hand pump is fine)
Breast milk storage bags or containers
Several bottles and nipples if someone else will be feeding baby pumped breast milk
Nipple cream (for the first few weeks)
Solid-food feeding
The necessities (not an issue until 4 to 6 months):
High chair
Plastic bibs
Infant feeding spoonsInfant bowl
It’s nice to have:
Mess mat for under the high chair
Baby food mill (if you’re ambitious enough to puree your own baby food)
Diapering
The necessities:
2 packs of newborn diapers to start
Wipes
Diaper rash ointment
Waterproof changing table pad
2-3 changing table pad covers (usually cotton or terry cloth)
Diaper pail or trash can with a lid
It’s nice to have:
4-5 waterproof square or rectangular pads for under baby’s bottom (protecting the cover that’s protecting the pad — you won’t be sorry)
Baby cream (if your baby has dry skin)
Non-talc powder (to help the diaper area dry faster)
Strictly optional:
A wipe warmer
A diaper stacker (though they’re pretty)
Bathing and grooming
The necessities:
2 hooded towels
4 washcloths
Infant tub (for after the umbilical cord falls off)
Bath seat or inflatable tub-within-a-tub (for after 6 months)
Baby bath wash
Baby shampoo
Baby comb and brush set
Nail scissors/nail clippers/nail file set
Cotton swabs
Cotton balls
It’s nice to have:
Bath toys
Mesh bag to hold bath toys
Bath thermometer
Faucet guard
Strictly optional:
A baby-size robe (it’s hard enough to get baby dressed in her real clothes!)
Clothing
The necessities:
7 or more snap-crotch bodysuits/onesies
3-4 T-shirts and/or side-snap shirts
Several snap-up rompers
Several shirt-and-pant sets
7 pairs of pajamas and/or sleeping gowns
Sun hat
Cold-weather hat
Cardigan sweater
Bunting or snowsuit if it gets cold
6 pairs of booties and/or socks
Baby hangers for the closet
It’s nice to have:
A special outfit to bring baby home in and/or show her off
Several diaper covers
A wearable sleep sack, to use instead of a blanket
Strictly optional:
Shoes (until baby is walking outside, i.e., the toddler years)
Going Out
The necessities:
Car seat that fits a newborn
Stroller that accommodates a newborn
Diaper bag filled with diapers, wipes, and a spare outfit
Front carrier, like a Snugli or Baby Bjorn
It’s nice to have:
Sling (for the newborn stage)
Baby backpack (for after 6 months)
Stroller that your car seat fits onto
Rain cover for the stroller
Infant headrest for the car seat (if it doesn’t come with one)
Warm blanket or “boot” to wrap baby in during winter strolls
Sunshades for the car windows
Big diaper bag for overnight trips
No-nos:
Mirror to see baby in the car (it can be a hazard if there’s an accident)
A secondhand car seat (always get a new one)
First toys
No necessities, but it’s nice to have:
Soft books and board books
Rattles
Plastic links
Soft blocks
Activity gym/play mat
Crib mirror
Toys that attach to the stroller
Something plush that crinkles, rattles, and squeaks
Baskets to store toys in all the key places: baby’s room, the living room, the kitchen
No-nos:
Car seat toy bars (an added risk if there’s an accident)
For Sitting
Bouncer seat or infant seat
Stationary activity center (once baby is 4 months old)
Heavy blankets and quilts to lay on the floor
It’s nice to have:
Swing
Moses basket (though only usable until baby reaches 3 months)
Portable play yard
No-nos:
Walker (get a stationary center instead, for safety)
Jumper (also generally considered unsafe)
For Soothing
The necessities:
Several pacifiers (try different brands to see which one your baby prefers)
Mobile for over the crib or changing table
Lullaby CDs or other soothing music
It’s nice to have:
Music box made for the crib
The Medicine Cabinet
The necessities:
Thermometer
Petroleum jelly
Infant Tylenol
Nasal aspirator
Electrolyte drink (such as Pedialyte, to treat dehydration)
